Avoiding the Good Food, Bad Food Trap

by Andrea Garen, Registered Dietitian | about the author 3. May 2011 16:05

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At our house, we work hard to create a positive dynamic at the dinner table for my five year old. I know that one of the best ways to encourage healthy eating behaviors for children is to provide structured family meals and make mealtime pleasant. But what happens when he’s at school or with his friends?

The other day my son didn’t eat the sandwich I sent with him to school for lunch and I asked him why. Did he want another type of sandwich? He said, no and that he didn’t eat his sandwich because it was made with white bread, which his teacher told him was “just sugar”.

My son’s teacher was trying to make a positive point about whole-wheat bread without realizing the unintended consequences.

As parents or school staff, our well-intended attempts to improve the eating habits of children can sometimes backfire. Labeling foods as “good” or “bad” can disrupt their natural curiosity about food and appetite, which can cause them to eat less well, not better.

My son used to like whole-wheat bread and then started to reject it. So I switched to white bread. But, now he eats NO bread! After all, food only has nutritional value if it is actually eaten.

Parents and caregivers can promote healthy eating by providing a variety of foods, without labeling them as "good" or "bad," and by giving children the freedom to turn down what they don’t want without coaxing or bribing them to eat.

Giving children the freedom to say no thank you, rather than restricting certain foods and pushing others, is the best way to get children to learn to accept new foods and build a positive relationship with food. 

Do you find yourself labeling foods as “good” or “bad”? 

Andrea Garen, Registered Dietitian

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